Where to begin?

So I haven't blogged since September, for a number of reasons, been busy, been disorganised etc but mainly been knocked sideways by the unexpected, unplanned news of expecting. The most amazing news in the world ever but it's also left me seriously out of action with lots of sickness and days in bed unable to do anything. Over the worst of it now I think and have a lot more energy, so can start resuming my life again. I toyed with the idea of erasing this blog and starting a whole new one, as it just seems a bit silly to keep moving the goalposts all the time, but taken the philosophical view that as google make it prohibitively difficult to close the linked gmail account and start again, that I should just stick with it. That's how life works, it twists and turns and best laid plans and all that. So here we are. I would like a new tittle for the blog though as I do feel that my journey into adulthood is pretty complete. As scatty as I am, i have a home, hold down a job, pay my bills, I'm settled with a man I adore and we have a baby on the way. Think that's definitely ticking a lot of the traits of being an adult. There are of course still 30 things I would like to complete before I'm 31. I will revamp the current list as my priorities have changed and to be honest, though not documented, I have actually managed to tick a few things off this list, so I'm going to just tweak it so that it reflects the new direction of my life. I'm not going to focus too much on the baby, as much as it is the most amazing news ever, I need to retain a semblance of self, as the only way that I'll be a good parent is by being happy within myself and having a sense of achievement of goals no matter how ridiculous, like having perfect bedding, but that shit makes me happy.